Online dating safety
- Only send messages to people you are interested in getting to know
- Be friendly and kind to others
- Keep dialogue on the dating website until you have built rapport
- Be yourself – imperfections and all
- Report any concerns to our moderators
- Respect othersâ opinions and decisions
- Consult our Customer Care team for advice
- Donât âspamâ a number of people with the same message
- Donât be rude, lewd or offensive
- Donât exchange contact details on a dating site until youâre ready to meet
- Donât use fake, outdated or modified photos
- Donât stand for abuse
- Donât provoke or harass people
- Donât respond harshly to rejection
To read more about our Dating Safety Tips click here .
Dating is fun but to ensure you do it in the safest way possible we have put together some golden rules to help you get the most out of your online dating journey.
- Never give money. If someone you are communicating with on a dating website asks you for money or your bank details they are likely to be a scammer. Read more about scammers here .
If you have experienced monetary fraud on a dating site, report it to Action Fraud via their reporting tool here .
- Donât give out your number. Wait until you know someone a little better before you share your contact details. If someone asks for your number straight away, politely decline.
- Report unwarranted behaviour. If you encounter a suspicious member on a dating site or someone has been rude to you, do not hesitate to report them to the Customer Care team using the report buttons on their profile or a message. How to report someone .
- Meet in a public place. When you meet another Match member for the first time, do it in a public place like a bar or a cafÃ©. Do not go to their home and do not give them your address.
- Arrange your own transport. Donât let your date pick you up from your home on your first meeting. Check the time of the last train/bus/tube.
- Tell a friend. Inform someone you know and trust that you are going on a date and give them details of where you are going.
- Stay connected. Make sure your phone is charged before your date.
- Take action. If you have encountered an incident of a serious nature call the police straight away and report your experience to Match on 020 305 96 494, or by email .
- For further advice regarding your safety click here .
Our Customer Care team works hard to protect our members while keeping the site relaxed and enjoyable. To ensure that you have the safest experience, use your best judgement when dating.
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We are a member of the Online Dating Association (ODA) which was set up to ensure high standards of behaviour by dating service providers serving the UK. The ODA Code of Practice is binding on members of the Association.
As an ODA Member we are required to have appropriate and effective arrangements in place for dealing with complaints and enquiries.
The ODA provides general information on common enquiries users have about dating services but will not deal directly with individual complaints which are properly the responsibility of member companies. The ODA monitors enquiry and complaint levels and the issues complained about. It can intervene if it sees worrying trends or serious matters of concern.
Further information about ODA can be found here. A link to our customer service arrangements is provided here .
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